Law of Attraction Processes
by Diane Linsley

As a certified life coach, I often use Law of Attraction processes to
help people find creative solutions to their problems.

How do you find a needle in a haystack? With a very large magnet.
You are that magnet, and your vibration is the magnetic force that
attracts objects, people and experiences into your life.

What if you were aware of how you attract these things? What if
you could consciously choose what you attract? Best of all, what if
you could be assured that there is no such thing as failure? There
are only two possible outcomes - either success or a learning experience.

How the Law of Attraction Works

The basic premise of Law of Attraction is that you attract what you focus on. You attract people, things and situations into your life with your "vibration," which is your emotional state.

The first step in attracting anything is to get clear on exactly what you want. What do you really want? Describe it in detail. If you are ambivalent about what you want, there are some fun Law of Attraction processes that can help you gain clarity.

The next step is to fine-tune your vibration to match the vibration of the thing you are trying to attract. If you are trying to attract a loving, supportive partner, you need to be a loving, supportive person yourself. If you are trying to attract happy, fun-loving friends....well, you know what I'm going to say.

Your emotions are more powerful than your thoughts when it comes to your point of attraction. The most challenging aspect of the Law of Attraction is learning how to handle your emotions. Fortunately, you can use your thoughts to change your emotions.

For example, if you are fearful about something, you may end up attracting the very thing that you fear because you are in a state of hypervigilance, always on the lookout for what you fear. You focus on what you fear, and that becomes your point of attraction. The fear needs to be dealt with appropriately - not just ignored or repressed - before you can attract what you want.

The best way to raise your vibration is by changing your focus to something that makes you feel good when you think about it. Remember, you get what you focus on.

This isn't because of magic. It's because when you focus on a goal, keeping it in the forefront of your mind, you are more likely to take action to achieve the goal than you would if you were paralyzed by fear. This is why negative emotions are often our biggest blocks to success.

This can be distressing to realize in the beginning. "You mean, I've been attracting what I don't want all my life by focusing on it?" Yep. But the good news is, you are the one who is in control of your own point of attraction, and you can change it. It just takes training and practice.

I spent a whole year in the Quantum Success Coaching Academy learning how to do this. The processes that I learned changed my life. I can teach these processes to you.

Law of Attraction in Life Coaching

I use Law of Attraction processes in combination with many other coaching tools, which are described on this website (see the Articles).

Law of Attraction processes are good for helping people get clarity and focus on their goals with a positive mindset. But here's where I go beyond the Law of Attraction. Once a person is clear about what they want, they need an action plan.

Unlike some Law of Attraction coaches, I don't claim that all you have to do is sit around visualizing what you want and feeling good about it. I'm a rational, goal-oriented person, and I love helping people make action plans for achieving their goals.

Emotions motivate our actions, but they don't solely determine what we get in life. When a client has emotional blocks, I don't try to cover them up with a quick-fix Band-Aid. And I certainly don't guilt-trip people when they are feeling down.

You don't need to be afraid of your emotions. Feeling sad, angry or fearful once in while is not going to make bad stuff happen to you. That's magical thinking, which is, unfortunately, the standard way of thinking for many Law of Attraction adherents.

Our emotions often have messages for us. Emotions are a barometer for where we are in our thinking. By asking powerful questions, I help clients discover the hidden messages in their emotions. This requires looking deeply into emotions, not disowning them or trying to change them. Once a person has worked through an emotion, their vibration naturally rises as their mood changes.

Studies show that there are benefits to feeling negative emotions after a setback. Bouncing back quickly isn't all it's cracked up to be. Grieving over failures actually increases our chances of succeeding in the future. But getting stuck in the grieving process can be a serious problem.

The Truth About Law of Attraction

It's important that we don't take the Law of Attraction to an unhealthy extreme. As Collette Baron-Reid says, "You're not personally responsible for everyone who is on the freeway today just because you chose to go for a drive."

Before you assume that the Law of Attraction will automatically bring you everything that your ego desires, check out this video by JP Sears, who is a famous life coach. I love it when people tell the truth about the Law of Attraction :)

As a certified Law of Attraction coach, I've spent a lot of time analyzing theories and experimenting with processes. I do Law of Attraction processes with awareness and understanding of the benefits and limitations. I know that in the end, I must defer to the wisdom of my higher self. It's my soul, not my ego, who is ultimately in charge of my life.

I believe that the biggest problem in the New Age movement is the emphasis on thinking positive and being confident instead of working hard and being competent. If you had to have surgery, would you prefer a smiling, confident doctor who didn't have good medical training or a shy, self-doubting doctor who had superior training? Think hard before you answer....

Studies show that fatal mistakes are more often made by confident people who overestimate their own skills. Self-doubt is good when it leads us to be careful and double-check our work. There's no quick and easy road to success. I will always trust in hard work more than positive thinking. But I also know the value of positive thinking in helping me persist in achieving my goals.

I said at the beginning that there are only two possible outcomes when you set out to attract something into your life. You will either succeed or you will have a learning experience. Yes, it's often a learning experience. But that's what we're here for.

Wouldn't it be nice if you could make the learning process more conscious? That's the real gift in practicing the Law of Attraction.

Here's a guided meditation for reaching goals.

Be well,
Diane Linsley

As a life coach, I use many different processes to help
people with their personal growth. Click here if you are
interested in coaching with me.

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